You made me laugh out loud, yet again. Even in your state, your wit is palpable.

I wish there was some advice to help those of us who are so empathic and raw to not have our guts ripped out and tossed away. To stop that ache that has no source and no end.

Here’s the thing.

It’s not about limiting access.

Its about allowing for access.

Letting them make the tentative steps forward.

And honouring where they want to stop. For a while or forever.

It this is all theory. I have only been with two people and the second one seems to have been the one.

So be sure to drink a full salt shaker of salt with my advice here.

Cause I tend to just go big or go home myself as well. ;)